How to navigate a long distance relationship

My partner and I live 9000km apart. He lives in Johannesburg and I live in London. We are incredibly fortunate that we can afford to make the commute to see each other, considering how far apart we actually live, and it’s something we never take for granted. We say we...

Performance versus pleasure

Performance-focused sex vs. pleasure-focused sex Most often when people have sex, they have what is known as goal-orientated or performance-focused sex. This sort of sex places the emphasis of the experience on the outcome, the goal or the performance. This can...