Playing it safe: A complete guide to contraceptives

We are fortunate to live in a country where we have some of the most liberal sexual and reproductive health rights in the world. This means that we generally have the ability to access contraceptive options and make our own decisions about our reproductive health, our...

Performance versus pleasure

Performance-focused sex vs. pleasure-focused sex Most often when people have sex, they have what is known as goal-orientated or performance-focused sex. This sort of sex places the emphasis of the experience on the outcome, the goal or the performance. This can...

Aging sexually

Aging sexually My grandfather died in his 90s after a successful and long life, and I’m convinced that lots of sex during his life (he was married 3 times) is just one of the reasons. We all grow older and sadly there’s little we can do about this. Not only does aging...

Condoms – Plain & Simple

Since I’m still travelling for work – and will be so for another week – I decided a shorter post would be easier this week. And what better topic to write about than something that is one of the most basic additions to sex, and something that has become a symbol of...
He says, She says… Sexual Differences ~ Women

He says, She says… Sexual Differences ~ Women

I was so thrilled to hear such positive feedback from people about my last post on understanding men in the bedroom (read it here), and I’ve been trying to find a moment in between travelling, conferences and other work to write part two – about women. I finally...

He says, She says… Sexual Differences ~ Men

More often than not, you’ll over hear women saying to each other “I just don’t get him,” or perhaps you’ve heard a man say “she always wants to cuddle and I just want to sleep!” Either way, when it comes to understanding the differences between the sexes, it seems...