What is BDSM?

Most people have either heard of or read 50 Shades of Grey, but few people actually know about the type of sex which the book gets into… BDSM stands for bondage & discipline, domination & submission, and sadomasochism. In the traditional sense, this type...

Sex about the house

My posts on the blog have been rather serious of late, so I decided it was time for a bit of fun. When people have sex, the #1 place in the house for it to happen is the bedroom, but there’s no need to restrict sex to just one room. Why not add some spice and...

Sex with Someone I Love…

“Masturbation is just sex with someone I love” ~ Woody Allen According to statistics, 90% of men and 65% of women masturbate. It’s said that the others are all lying. Either way, masturbation is a big part of our sex lives and is generally the first sexual experience...

Talking sexual fetishes on Yfm

A few weeks ago I was a guest on the PG show on Yfm with Prof Elna McIntosh (a friend, mentor and fellow South African Sex Therapist). We discussed sexual fetishes and odd sexual situations. Take a listen …...

What tickles your fancy?

Fetishes We’ve all heard the term fetish, we all wonder if we have one and what it means to have one, but do you really know what a fetish is? Last week I was a guest on a national radio station and got to discuss this topic on air with a colleague and realised just...