What is BDSM?

Most people have either heard of or read 50 Shades of Grey, but few people actually know about the type of sex which the book gets into… BDSM stands for bondage & discipline, domination & submission, and sadomasochism. In the traditional sense, this type...

Getting what you want in bed

What keeps the sexual excitement alive? The sexual relationship between two people is of upmost importance in maintaining a happy and healthy relationship. So there are a few key elements which are important in order for sex to be fulfilling to both partner. Firstly,...

Performance versus pleasure

Performance-focused sex vs. pleasure-focused sex Most often when people have sex, they have what is known as goal-orientated or performance-focused sex. This sort of sex places the emphasis of the experience on the outcome, the goal or the performance. This can...

He says, She says… Sexual Differences ~ Men

More often than not, you’ll over hear women saying to each other “I just don’t get him,” or perhaps you’ve heard a man say “she always wants to cuddle and I just want to sleep!” Either way, when it comes to understanding the differences between the sexes, it seems...