Love in the time of Corona[virus]

At this unprecedented time, and with more countries taking more and more extreme [and necessary] measures to curb the spread of the virus, people across the world have had to stay home with their families, loved ones and flat mates. Being in such close proximity to...

Ten tips to make talking about sex easier

It’s easy to have a conversation with our partner about things going on in each other’s lives, but when it comes to sex, we often struggle to know what to say or how to express our true feelings; especially if things aren’t going that well in this department or if...

How to navigate a long distance relationship

My partner and I live 9000km apart. He lives in Johannesburg and I live in London. We are incredibly fortunate that we can afford to make the commute to see each other, considering how far apart we actually live, and it’s something we never take for granted. We say we...

A Shy Girl’s Guide to Sex

I haven’t posted anything on my blog in so long that I have almost forgotten how to! Not only that, but sex and relationship work has taken a back seat to my current career pursuits – completing a PG Dip in cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) in London. I...

How to fight fairly

Arguing and disagreeing is inevitable in relationships, however many couples’ conflict style is destructive not constructive. Whenever we argue, we should try to utilise certain ‘terms and conditions’ in order to resolve the conflict and move forward. Following these...