Love in the time of Corona[virus]

At this unprecedented time, and with more countries taking more and more extreme [and necessary] measures to curb the spread of the virus, people across the world have had to stay home with their families, loved ones and flat mates. Being in such close proximity to...

How to navigate a long distance relationship

My partner and I live 9000km apart. He lives in Johannesburg and I live in London. We are incredibly fortunate that we can afford to make the commute to see each other, considering how far apart we actually live, and it’s something we never take for granted. We say we...

10 reasons for low libido

What causes a low libido? How it can be prevented? 1. Medication – certain medication can have a serious impact on your libido. For example, antidepressants will not only knock your libido but will make it really challenging to reach orgasm as well. Check the side...

A Shy Girl’s Guide to Sex

I haven’t posted anything on my blog in so long that I have almost forgotten how to! Not only that, but sex and relationship work has taken a back seat to my current career pursuits – completing a PG Dip in cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) in London. I...

How to fight fairly

Arguing and disagreeing is inevitable in relationships, however many couples’ conflict style is destructive not constructive. Whenever we argue, we should try to utilise certain ‘terms and conditions’ in order to resolve the conflict and move forward. Following these...

CliffCentral

On the 25 November, I was the guest at the Ladies Round Table on the Arye Kallman show on CliffCentral. The round table is hosted by Tamerine Jardine, Zenande Mfenyana, and Wardah Hartley.   We had a really fun 30 minute chat about all things sex, including...