Sex toys for beginners

It can be really daunting when you first decide to explore the world of sex toys. Questions such as, “What does that do? How does that work? Where do I put that?” are some that I often hear. Toys don’t have to be intimidating and can be a really fun addition to your...

Unusual Sexual Play

Pegging Pegging is all about role reversal, and it’s got nothing to do with clothes pegs or pirate peg legs. Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her male partner anally. It’s a sexual act that might raise a lot of eyebrows, but can be...

Ten tips to make talking about sex easier

It’s easy to have a conversation with our partner about things going on in each other’s lives, but when it comes to sex, we often struggle to know what to say or how to express our true feelings; especially if things aren’t going that well in this department or if...

Endometriosis

What is it? As a woman, our uterus (or womb) is lined with endometrium tissue. This is normal. What is not normal, and what happens when a woman suffers from endometriosis, is that this tissue is present on organs outside of the uterus, including the ovaries (where...

How to navigate a long distance relationship

My partner and I live 9000km apart. He lives in Johannesburg and I live in London. We are incredibly fortunate that we can afford to make the commute to see each other, considering how far apart we actually live, and it’s something we never take for granted. We say we...

Talking sex on 5fm

In case you missed it this morning (it was at 05.40am here in London), here’s the podcast of my short chat to DJ Fresh on 5fm, a South African national radio station. We chatted specifically about sexual attraction to pregnant women, other unusual fetishes and...